I’m kind of running out of enthusiasm for World of Warcraft. It really isn’t because of WoW itself… I still enjoy the game mechanics quite a bit. I really think they got the mix of questing and grinding, the button-mashing, the difficulty all just about right. It’s certainly one of the most fun MMORPGs I’ve played. And there are still classes that I thoroughly enjoy playing and characters I’d like to get to 70.
The problem, really, is with my guild. Terri and I seem to have a knack for joining guilds that seem very casual-friendly… Very friends/family oriented… Claim to be all about kicking back, enjoying yourself, chatting with your friends, and maybe raiding a little bit now and then… Only to have them suddenly decide to turn raid-oriented on us.
It happened with Legion, it happened again with Night Haven, and it seems to be happening now with Poison Arrow.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve always enjoyed raiding, but not to the exclusion of all else. Not to the point that it eclipses spending time with friends and family. Not to the point that we recruit people based solely and completely on their ability to raid. Not to the point that we all but discard the folks who don’t raid. And that seems to be happening right now in Poison Arrow.
We recently recruited a number of folks who transferred over to Elune from another server. They used to be genuinely hardcore raiders and had tons of raid experience. And they were basically handed control of our guild. Our long-time recruiting officer vanished overnight, one of the new folks was made recruiting officer, and the very next day they were posting on the Elune forums and shouting in trade chat. We’ve since recruited a number of people based solely on their ability to raid – their class, spec, and gear.
There are now a ton of people in the guild that I don’t know at all. Where I used to be greeted with a chorus of hellos when I logged in, now there’s only silence. And since I’m not raiding all the time with the cool kids, nobody wants to waste any time playing with me. They’d rather be helping get gear and materials for someone who is going to be raiding with them.
I guess I can’t really blame them… It is a game. You are supposed to be having fun. And I can’t expect them to waste their time playing with me if they don’t find it fun.
I’m really not terribly upset that they want to raid either – it’s the sudden and unexplained change. Nobody ever said that we were going to switch to putting emphasis on raiding. Nobody ever explained that the leadership was bored with seeing the same content over and over and wanted to see some new stuff. Nobody ever told us that we were going to actively recruit raiders to replace our more casual players.
Instead, folks just suddenly started changing. We had new people I barely knew as officers. Old officers disappeared. Long-time players stopped showing up. And guildchat was now filled with raid strategies and statistics instead of humor.
So, now I’m not sure what to do with myself in WoW. Once you’ve hit 70 you can basically either PvP or raid. I’ve never been a big fan of PvP, and I really don’t enjoy raiding with these new folks. I’ve got some alts that I enjoy playing, and I could level them to 70…but I’m not sure what the point is if I’m not going to play them once I get there.
I’ve said many times that I’d still be playing City of Heroes if I could afford to, and I’ve contemplated re-activating me account, but I’m faced with the same dilemma. There’s still plenty of things I’ve never seen or done in CoH, and I’m sure I’d have plenty of fun on my way to 50 (or whatever the maximum level is now), but once I’m there it’ll once again be all about PvP or raiding – and without a group of people that I enjoy playing with raiding loses its appeal.
The same thing goes for EVE Online – I’ve wanted to play it for ages, but there really isn’t much of a point if I don’t have anyone to play with.
If it was simply a matter of killing time I could certainly find ways to occupy myself. I’ve been having fun with Penumbra and Soulstorm, I’ve got plenty of books to read, there’s always something that should be done around the house, we’ve got our Netflix subscription, and if all else fails I could always watch TV… But it’s also a matter of spending time with Terri. Terri and I are both gamers, we always have been, and MMORPGs have been a good way to spend time together while getting our gaming fix.
I’ve always greatly enjoyed sharing the experience of killing something big and nasty with my wife. Seeing some strange new vista together. Wandering into the unknown together. The shared experience was always far more enjoyable than doing it yourself – much like reading the same book and then being able to discuss it afterwards, or going to a movie together.
So, I’m now trying to find something fun and time-consuming… Something with a good deal of replayability, vaguely RPGish aspects, some kind of multiplayer support… Something that Terri and I could kill a few hours playing together. And I’m having a fairly difficult time coming up with ideas.